This was asked over at quora. Just keeping this for posterity. I once dated a high-powered model of exceeding beauty for a short time. We had been introduced by some mutual friends and when she said yes I couldn’t believe it. I should have known what I was in for when this happened. In those days I was rather well off, drove a convertible Mercedes … Continue reading What are some tips for dating very attractive women?
I can remember hearing those words. 5 years ago. Hurled at me by some asshole who I used to be friends with. Someone who’d let me down, and now wanted nothing more than to hurt me by calling me a loser and a failure. Double whammy I know. I will be a loser and a failure. As if they knew me. People do this shit … Continue reading I Will be Forever a Loser and a Failure
I am happy I was able to keep this misshapen blog going on. It’s been a long while. And as I read, I see changes – my dreams, my longings, my priorities, even my identity. Prior to This I wanted to serve. I wanted to have follow Christ in the most unselfish way possible. But it was not meant for me. I wanted to but … Continue reading New Opportunities, New Challenges
Date a girl or a guy who invests. You will be lucky. Marry him/her and your life will be in bliss. Continue reading Date A Guy / Girl Who Invests
I am what you would call a traveller-observer. I would go around the cities just to observe, eat, drink and see places. I’ve been to malls, I interviewed friends and talk with strangers regarding topics such as the place, how to ride from one place to another, family and finance. In the course of our conversations, we often delve to sensitive topics. Because of this, … Continue reading Stop Acting Rich
Doubts are lingering in my mind; something that’s prevalent – something unknown. I don’t really know. I wish to trust my instincts and do away with rationalization bordering on excess. I’m doubting myself and everything I believe in. There is a feeling of being used – again and again – and rationalizing that I wasn’t, that it really is something I can hope for and … Continue reading Clouds of Doubt…
Back from where I came from, it is always an admirable trait to be indifferent to the things that happen to you. In fact, it is embedded in the rule of St. Ignatius that in order to attain a certain degree of spiritual enlightenment, one has to be indifferent. With my Jesuit training, I have come to acquire this character and even today that I … Continue reading Ignatian Indifference